I lost two years of my life because I repeated a grade twice when I was in high school. This experience left me behind other people my age. Now, I am about to be 26 years old and suddenly I figured out a shortcut recently. That is getting married as soon as possible.
There are a bunch of problems I am currently facing. No friends, no family (in this country), and no nationality (that I want). Although I can solve most of them by myself within five years, getting married to a Japanese female can improve all of them. What’s more, it’s definitely a shortcut for my life. I can get back those wasted two years through marriage by moving to the next stage of my life faster than other people. The most important part is that I can get a best friend who I can talk to almost every day. Lacking normal relationships is damaging my mental health.
I registered on two famous online marriage agencies weeks ago. At first, I was frustrated because almost no one contacted me and people that did contact me quickly passed over me. However, many people indeed checked my profile. Over 300 people clicked my photo in a week which seems higher than average male members. I guess at least my looks are OK. I suppose there are two possible reasons why people didn’t regard me as a potential option. First, I am still a student even though I am about 26. The big elephant in the room is obviously my current nationality is which could be considered a huge disadvantage.
Fortunately, one female living in the local city contacted me and sent me messages almost every day. I should say, this start was actually not bad. We share multiple hobbies like wearing kimono and visiting shrines. However, I am still worrying if I can develop this relationship because I really don’t have much experience with relationships with others.
Maybe after I graduate from school and have a job, there will be more people that want me to be their partner, but people that approach me at this point are definitely better because they are able to think about things long term.